在雅思口語中,禮貌是一道常考題,從part1到part3都有相關問題,但同時這也是一道抽象的難題,很多考生會覺得無所適從,不知從何談起,下面小編就雅思口語相關問題為大家做詳細介紹。后期小編會針對英國留學條件做相關介紹哦,有需要的同學可以繼續關注。
1、What is politeness in your opinion?你認為什么是禮貌?
有句話說,讓別人舒服的程決定了你人生的高度。所以禮貌就是讓周圍的人都覺得受到尊重,有面子。幫助我們減少麻煩和沖突,和我們接觸的人也會尊重我們。
Politeness means you dont make others uncomfortable around you, instead they would feel respected and have the honor. They help us to have less trouble from others, and those who associate with us will also learn how to behave well and respect the others. including eating quietly and neatly, paying attention to the person who is talking to you, not gossiping, laughing even if the joke isnt funny. Not jump the queue, Not smoke in the public, and so on.
2、When you were child who taught you to be polite?
一般都是父母或者祖父母,以及幼兒園小學的老師教我們從小要懂禮貌。注意要使用過去式。然后據一些簡單的例子。
想起有一個小故事,記者問:“在您一生中,最重要的東西是在哪所大學、哪個實驗室里學到的?”一位白發蒼蒼的諾貝爾獎獲得者平靜地回答:“是在幼兒園。” 記者非常驚奇:“為什么是在幼兒園?您認為您在幼兒園里學到了什么呢?”老人答:“在幼兒園里,我學會了很多很多。比如,把自己的東西分一半給小伙伴們;不是自己的東西不要拿;東西要放整齊;飯前要洗手;午飯后要休息;做了錯事要表示歉意;學習要多思考,要仔細觀察大自然。我認為,我學到的全部東西就是這些。”
Actually, my parents and teachers in my kindergarten and primary school instructed me how to behave myself. for example, they told me to share my stuff in half with my playmates, don’t take others’ stuff without asking, say sorry when I did something wrong, and so forth.
3、Why is it important to be polite to people?
其實這個問題是問禮貌的重要性。首先,一個人的言行體現了他的素質。在與別人相處時,高素質的人既受歡迎又受尊敬。這樣,交談時別人會很舒服,也可以減少兩個人間的社交距離,使談話變得更輕松,可以說禮貌是堅實關系的基礎。其次,你對別人有禮貌,別人也會以禮相待,久而久之,這可以形成良好的社會風氣。
To begin with , the words and deeds(言行) of a person show his quality. When getting along with others, people with high quality are well-liked and well-respected. Thus, it puts other people at ease(使某人感到舒適) and also helps decrease the social distance between two people, making it easier to communicate. As it were(可以說), politeness is the foundation of strong relationships. Besides that, I am polite to others and vice versa(反之亦然), and in the course of time(久而久之), it can form favorable social morals(良好的社會風尚/道德).
4、Do you think people became more or less polite in your country compared to when you were a child?
你是感覺人心不古,世風日下啊?還是覺得國民素質提高了呢?其實這兩個方面都可以,只要能說出現象和原因就好。比如說我感覺很多人越來越沒禮貌了,因為大家總忙著看手機忽視了和其他人面對面的溝通,第二是因為很多人工作壓力大,心情郁悶,所以就不注意禮貌了。
Personally, I feel that some people are getting less polite. Firstly, technology makes its own contribution to the losing of politeness through increasing indifference (冷漠)among people. For example, it is the dominance of mobile phone that has largely reduced the willingness of people to have face-to-face conversations with their family members. Besides that, the fast pace in modern society is another contributing factor to poor manners. Compared to last few decades, today’s people are inflicted with loads of work and are under much heavier pressure of all kinds. As a result, the majority of them tend to have too limited time to get out of their way to help strangers or to show good manners everywhere through minor details such as putting chairs under the table before they leave the food court.
5、In your country’s culture, how do you show that you are being polite?
有禮貌的行為:
注重儀表:pay attention to deportment
遵守諾言:keep promise
不說臟話:no bad words/swear words/dirty words
不抖腿:don’t shake legs when sitting
吃飯不發出噪音:don’t make noise when eating
沒禮貌的行為:
插隊:jumping the queue/cut in line
打岔:interrupting others s talking
背后中傷他人:backbiting others
吐痰/亂扔垃圾:spit in the public/ litter around
大聲喧嘩:speak loud in the public
6、Are we less polite with members of our families than with people we don’t know?
中國人講究“大恩不言謝”,從而關系越近,“禮貌”反而就越不被重視,因為覺得會讓關系“疏遠”。拿我自己為例,比如我從來沒有聽過父母互相說“謝謝你”,或者在想讓對方干什么的時候說“你可不可以。。。嗎?”
Chinese people prefer “not to say thank you when a great favor is done for you” (an old Chinese saying), so the closer the relationship gets, the less emphasis is put on “politeness”, which is considered to have the potential of estranging friends and/or family. Take myself as an example, I have never heard my parents saying “thank you”, or “could you please …?”when they want a favor from each other.
7、Do you think we should be polite to those who are not being polite to us?
如果遇到沒有禮貌的人,盡管心里不爽,但是也不能失禮,不要tit for tat(以牙還牙,針鋒相對),還是要構建和諧社會嘛。
Although I would feel annoyed when being treated impolitely, I wouldn’t tit for tat. After all, politeness are the means of developing social relations and the backbone of a harmonious society.It will help to build up a more civilized society. Without good manners, people are easy to quarrel, get others furious and lower the efficiency of communications.